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An Oklahoma boarding school promised help for troubled girls. Students say they got punishment instead.

Photo by Ashlynd Baecht, The Frontier

By Ashlynd Baecht, The Frontier
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Mary Baerg believed there was only one way out of her Christian boarding school.

She waited until after dark one night in September 2024, took off her ankle monitor and slipped out a back door. She ran into the woods surrounding New Lifehouse Academy in rural Delaware County, carrying only her program-issued Bible. Baerg found a piece of glass in the roadway and cut her forearm five times. She told first responders she couldn’t handle everything going on in her life.

Baerg didn’t want to die. She just wanted relief, she said.

Her adoptive parents sent her to New Lifehouse after a previous suicide attempt, believing she would get the help she needed. Baerg said the school meted out punishment instead of offering support. She said staff physically restrained her for having emotional outbursts, talking too much, and not adhering to the strict rules.

“I just figured the only way out was maybe running away,” she said.

When the Delaware County Sheriff’s Office found her, she said she was sitting on a large rock. An ambulance took her to a hospital in Vinita, where she received stitches, according to medical records.

Mary said the nurse asked why Baerg had run away and tried to hurt herself. She told the nurse she didn’t feel safe at the boarding school. Soon after, a New Lifehouse staff member arrived and sat in Baerg’s room, answering questions from hospital staff, she said. A staffer took Baerg back to New Lifehouse after the incident. She said the school placed her on suicide watch, which meant she had to sleep on the living room couch.

New Lifehouse Academy markets itself to parents of teenage girls facing emotional and behavioral challenges, but is not licensed to provide mental health treatment.

The boarding school is operated by Adult & Teen Challenge of Oklahoma, part of a network of more than 200 Christian recovery programs across the United States that promote studying the Bible to cure addiction and trauma.

Baerg and 23 other former students who attended New Lifehouse over the past decade told The Frontier that the program relied on control and isolation. Former students said punishments included physical exercise, food restriction, outdoor labor, and writing Bible verses. Some former students described staff pushing or punching them. Others said staff would restrain them by holding them down and sitting on them, causing their legs to go numb or making it difficult to breathe. One former student claimed in a federal lawsuit filed in August that she needed help for an eating disorder, anxiety, self-harm, and depression when her family enrolled her from 2014 to 2016. The lawsuit claims New Lifehouse subjected her and other students to violent physical restraint holds and forced exercise to the point of “vomiting, exhaustion, and even fainting.”

Oklahoma Adult & Teen Challenge hasn’t responded in court to the lawsuit yet and told The Frontier it couldn’t comment on pending litigation.

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The Oklahoma Rundown 📰

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Here’s what’s happening in Oklahoma today:

  • Canton Lake water release underway to replenish Lake Hefner, raising local concerns (KFOR)

  • Emails: Mayor’s office directed police ‘enforcement’ against Tulsa’s Food Not Bombs (NonDoc)

  • Lawmakers say workers at state mental health clinics being told to resign (The Oklahoman)*

  • White House yanks Oklahoma nominee to lead Immigration and Customs Enforcement (Oklahoma Voice)

  • Community mourns OKC mom who died in a snowstorm while hiking (KFOR)

  • Piedmont residents push back against revised data center proposal (KOCO)

  • Broken Arrow: data center not imminent, moratorium could be extended (Broken Arrow Sentinel)

  • Tulsa Public Schools’ deputy superintendent Dr. Kathy Dodd steps down for national role (Tulsa Flyer)

  • Two Oklahoma women were denied abortions after receiving fatal fetal diagnoses. Now they're suing (StateImpact Oklahoma)

  • Three arrested in two separate Enid daycare fraud investigations totaling nearly $68,700 (News 9)

  • Ignorance of civics and government is the biggest US threat, says Supreme Court Justice Sonia Sotomayor (Tulsa Flyer)

  • Oklahoma’s current drought is bad, but residents lived through worse, climatologist says (Oklahoma Voice)

  • Oklahoma Tribal leaders urge Congress to modernize landmark housing law (News 9)

  • Oklahoma CareerTech board to vote on request for funding increase (Oklahoma Voice)

  • Oklahoma is ending a school meal program. Districts are left to figure out how to feed kids (KOSU)

  • Sand Springs business owner rebuilds after deadly explosion (News On 6)

  • Two Tulsa-area adoptees on podcast mission to find others like them (Tulsa World)*

  • Ken Pomeroy named Emerging Artist of the Year at Americana Awards (KOSU)

  • Once again, it's 918 Day! (Public Radio Tulsa)

  • Alert: New deer hunting law in Oklahoma (KTEN)

  • Oklahoma high school choirs in competition to perform with Foreigner (KOCO)

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