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“Don’t believe anything the sheriff’s office tells you”: A family’s search for answers

Morgan Stewart with a photo and belongings of her father, Lt. Bob Stewart, formerly with the Potawatomi County Sheriff's Office. (Sue Pfannmuller/Oklahoma Watch)
By J.C. Hallman, Oklahoma Watch
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Morgan Stewart was at brunch with family in Missouri when her phone started to blow up with calls from Oklahoma relatives. She ignored a few, then picked up because they kept calling, over and over.
“You need to get here now,” said Misty Stewart, a cousin. “Your dad has been found. He’s gone; he’s died.”
Morgan Stewart, 26, couldn’t process it at first. Her parents divorced years before. She moved with her mother to a Kansas City suburb but remained close to her father, Bob Stewart, a lieutenant in the Pottawatomie County Sheriff’s Office. In Morgan Stewart’s eyes, her father was the embodiment of a man; everyone knew that Bob Stewart could handle himself. His daughter had watched him survive numerous travails: another divorce, the unexpected death of a daughter, Morgan’s sister, and even a tornado that had sheared off 90% of his Shawnee home just five days before.
Morgan Stewart didn’t remember much from the drive that day from Missouri to Oklahoma. But she recalled only too well the shock that came next. She told someone, she didn’t remember who, that she would be going to her father’s house to begin the process of organizing his things.
“Are you sure you want to do that?” they said. “What about the blood?”
That was how Morgan Stewart learned that her father had died of a single bullet to the head, a suicide, according to the medical examiner’s report.
It didn’t make sense, Morgan Stewart said. Her father had been through a lot, but he wasn’t down or depressed. She’d checked on him just the other day, and he seemed great. He was talking about making a fresh start in a new house, doing things for the future.
That was April 2023. More than two years later, Morgan Stewart still wasn’t buying it.
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